How Family Role shapes you💔 : - Part 01
How Family role shapes you💔 Part 01 — The Invisible Damage of Constant Comparison between children especially the role of the “𝐠𝐨𝐥𝐝𝐞𝐧 𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐝”… and the sibling who grew up beside them. The golden child often looks like the success story — confident, high-achieving, always “𝐝𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠.” But behind that polished surface is a child who learned early that love must be earned - 𝘈 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘩𝘪𝘥𝘦𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘳 𝘦𝘮𝘰𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘯 𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘤𝘳𝘢𝘤𝘬 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘪𝘮𝘢𝘨𝘦 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭𝘴 𝘥𝘢𝘯𝘨𝘦𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘴. 𝘈 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘤𝘢𝘳𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘴 𝘨𝘶𝘪𝘭𝘵 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘣𝘦𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘰𝘸𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘧𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘢𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘵. And then there’s the other child — the one who wasn’t chosen for the spotlight. 👉🏻 The one who learned to stay quiet. 👉🏻 To not take up space. 👉🏻 To assume others come first. 👉🏻 To believe that maybe something is wrong with them. Both grow up carrying invisible wounds. 𝐎𝐧𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐟 𝐛𝐞...